a gay man wouldn’t want a sex doll
I have a friend who recently married a gay man. He and his partner have been together for close to 10 years now and their relationship is still going strong. I’m truly happy for them, but recently he mentioned something that made me really uncomfortable.
He confided in me that his partner was considering getting a sex doll. It made me wonder why a gay man would even be considering getting a sex doll, especially when he already had a loving and loyal relationship?
I was taken aback when my friend asked me if I thought it was a good idea. I wanted to be supportive, but I couldn’t think of one good argument to make in support of it. I tried to explain that it might be weird for him to introduce a third party into his relationship. No matter how good of a friend he thought a sex doll was, it would always prove to be an awkward and uncomfortable third party.
I also felt it was important to mention how it could make his partner feel if he did get a sex doll. I mean, how is a partner supposed to feel about their significant other getting a fake person to share intimacy with? It could be devastating to their romantic relationship, not to mention the trust issues it could create.
My friend listened to all of my warnings and told me he would take it into serious consideration before making a decision. He was grateful that I had taken the time to talk to him about it.
At the end of the day, I think my friend made the right decision. He understood that a sex doll could easily disrupt his relationship and cause a lot of problems that would be hard to fix. In the end he and his partner decided to make their relationship stronger by keeping any third parties out of it.
I think it is possible to be in a loving and monogamous relationship without having a sex doll. There are plenty of ways to express intimacy and keep the relationship fresh and exciting. If both partners are sure they want to stay together, vibrators they will find ways to keep the thrill alive.
I recently read an article about sex dolls and how they are becoming more and more popular. It seems like people who are purchasing them really don’t understand the implications that can come with having a sex doll around. People should really think twice about introducing a third party in their relationships and make sure that they are ready to handle the consequences before making a decision.
I believe that communication is the key to any successful relationship; that, and trust and respect. If a couple can trust and understand each other in every situation, even if that means discussing the possibility of a sex doll, then there is a chance that it will be beneficial. But, if the couple cannot come to an understanding or make a mutual decision about it, then it is probably best to just leave it alone.