how to use sex toy for female
Using sex toys for female pleasure is something that has become increasingly popular with women lately. They’re talking about it more openly, embracing their sexuality, and wanting to make sure their partners also derive pleasure. It can be a bit overwhelming when you’re first starting to explore the use of sex toys, but there are helpful tips and tricks to ensure your experience with them is positive and pleasurable.
To begin with, you want to ensure you purchase good quality materials. Whether it be glass, silicone, plastic, or metal make sure that it is non-porous and body-safe. That way there’s no worry of unwanted bacteria or infections. You can choose to buy the sex toys yourself or with your partner, whichever you’re most comfortable with.
The next step is to ensure whatever toy you choose is the right size. I once had a friend that bought a toy that was too big for her and she definitely regretted it. So, to err on the side of caution, pick a toy that you can handle comfortably.
Another important step is to really get to know your toy. Take a good look at it and familiarize yourself with the product and how to use it. Most toys come with instructions, so read them carefully. Warming up and getting lubed up is essential. Using lubricant can make your experience with the toy much smoother.
Now you’re ready to start exploring. Take the time to get comfortable with yourself and the toy. Start slowly and begin to feel how the toy responds to your body. Make sure that wherever you’re using the toy feels good, too. And don’t forget to breathe!
You can use the toy for a clitoral massage or vaginal penetration–or both, if you’re feeling adventurous. Use your hands as well as the toy and explore some different moves and positions to make the experience more pleasurable. Remember, it’s all about what feels good to you.
Once you’re using the toy, it’s important to regularly check in with yourself. Are you still comfortable? Do you need to add more lubricant? Are you ready to move on or do you want to continue? Pay attention to your body and your reactions and use them as clues as to what feels right for you.
Finally, don’t forget to clean the toy after use. Washing it with warm water and soap should do the trick. You can also use a special, toy-approved cleaning solution to ensure that it’s bacteria-free. This will make sure your toy is ready to go for your next time exploring.
Now that you’ve tried the toy, it’s time to think about realistic expectations. No toy is perfect and you may have to try a few in order to find the one that works best for you. Do some research, read reviews, check out online forums, and find what works for you.
When you’re ready to step out of your comfort zone and explore new and exciting options, there are several types of sex toys available for female pleasure. Vibrators are quite popular and come in many shapes, sizes, and speeds. Bullet vibrators are small but pack a powerful punch. G-spot vibrators are specifically designed to target the G-spot and there are double-ended vibrators for extra enjoyment.
If you’re feeling a bit kinkier, anal toys such as butt plugs and dildos are also great options. Make sure to use plenty of lube and go slow. Glass and silicone dildos are examples of popular anal toys, and these materials are considered body safe and non-porous.
Some women might enjoy the feeling of bondage and consider exploring other options such as handcuffs, ties, and blindfolds. Make sure to communicate openly with your partner to ensure both of you feel safe and comfortable with the activity.
Sex toys are a great way to get to know your body and experience newfound pleasures. Don’t limit yourself and be willing to try different things until you find what works for you. Once you do, remember to practice safely and to use the toy properly. Have fun and enjoy!