When I hear the words “phallic dildo”, my mind immediately goes to what it could mean. For those of us who aren’t familiar with the term, phallic dildos are sex toys that are often shaped like an erect penis. It’s an important tool for those looking to explore their own sexuality or share intimate experiences with a partner.
At first I couldn’t quite understand why anyone would want to use something that looked like a penis for pleasure. Then I read up on it and realized just how many possibilities a phallic dildo could open up. What really got to me was the age-old concept of pleasure as sin that once surrounded these toys. It made me sad how everyone felt shame and fear about sex and pleasure so they would turn away from something that could potentially empower them.
Nowadays, our modern day culture puts way less shame and fear on the idea of using these toys as a way to enhance one’s sexual experience. We live in more progressive times and I’m here for it! People now understand that using a dildo to explore their own sexuality or share an intimate experience with a partner is a beautiful and powerful thing and shouldn’t be seen as a sin or an immoral act.
Plus, when you think about it, why should a person be ashamed of using something that makes them feel good? There’s no right or wrong way to discover pleasure, and if a phallic dildo makes you feel that way, then it’s totally accepted and safe. Myths and false information shouldn’t be perpetuated anymore. We need to move away from outdated ideas and create more open-minded space for more exploration of pleasure.
We all deserve to feel safe and empowered in our own sexual experiences. Trusting in our own bodies and being able to pleasure ourselves is part of living in an accepting, nonjudgmental world. A phallic dildo can be an important way to help us achieve that knowledge and satisfaction.
And, let’s be real, these toys are also a great way to spice up your nights, even if you’re in a relationship. You can experiment with what kinds of pressures and angles might be pleasurable in new ways and roles can be changed. Trying out new positions, speeds and pressures can often give a familiar experience a whole new angle.
But, no matter how you choose to use this type of sex toy, it’s important to remember that there are no wrong or right reasons. As long as no one is forcing or coercing you, go out, have fun and explore!