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As I’ve gotten older, I’ve become more experimental with sex toys. To me, it’s all about finding new ways to experience pleasure, and sex toys are an amazing way to do that. They can add to your solo sex life, your one-on-one partnered sex, and even your group sex if you open your mind and get creative.

At first, I was a bit apprehensive about using sex toys. I wasn’t sure if they would be pleasurable, or if I was just going to waste money. This quickly changed. My first experience with a vibrator was a magical one and I’ve been hooked ever since. I’m a much more confident woman now, and I’m grateful for that.

Although the market is full of sex toys, it’s important to know what to do with them. Here’s what I’ve learned from my experiences. For starters, explore different types of toys, for something that suits you. There are vibrators, dildos, and anal plugs, but that’s not all. There are bondage toys, pumps, and clitoral suction toys that can make your experience even better. Choose something that looks fun and exciting, and get ready to have a great time.

When you’ve got a sex toy, the key thing is to use lube. Lube can make your experience more pleasurable as it helps reduce friction and make the toys smoother. Plus, it helps to keep things pleasurable for longer. I like to start off by using a little lube on my body, and see how it feels. Then I gradually add more lube to the toy, so I can explore different sensations.

It’s also important to be safe and keep things clean. With sex toys, hygiene is key — so I always buy from reputable brands that are well-reviewed and rated. Then I make sure I clean the toys with warm, soapy water after every use. I usually use rubbing alcohol, diluted in water, or a sex toy cleaner (which is designed to be used on toys).

Also, communication is key. Talking to your partner about desires and sex toys expectations before getting started is always a good idea. Besides discussing preferences and limits, it’s important to talk about the type of sex toys you’ll be using and why. Safety and comfort are much more important than anything, so make sure you speak up and have a chat beforehand.

Finally, go with the flow and don’t be afraid to experiment. Try new positions, speeds, sensations, and movements to make the experience pleasurable and unique. Be creative, explore different fantasies, and use the toys to give each other pleasure. There’s no right or wrong way to use sex toys — just enjoy the moment and have fun.

Now that I’ve shared what to do with sex toys, let’s now talk about bondage toys! What I’d usually do is start off with something simple, like handcuffs. This is great for beginners as it does not require a lot of skill. All you have to do is secure the cuffs gently around your partner’s wrists and then explore the sensations.

If you’re feeling more daring, then you can explore body harnesses or rope bondage. These types of toys require a bit more knowledge, so it’s important to do your research beforehand. I find that reading books or articles on bondage is a great way to learn the basics. You can also pick up some skills by watching instructional videos or attending classes.

Another great toy for bondage is a blindfold. Blindfolds can add a new level to bondage play as the anticipation that comes with not being able to see heightens the thrill. There are no rules on how to use a blindfold, but they can be used for light spanking or light touching. The key is to start slow and then build up to something more intense.

There are many other bondage toys you can explore, like clamps, whips, and floggers. These toys can be a bit intimidating, especially if you’ve never used them before. That’s why it’s important to communicate with your partner to make sure both of you feel comfortable and safe. Experimenting is the best way to find something that works for both of you.

When it comes to group play, there is a variety of sex toys that you can use to spice things up. Cock rings, vibrators, and blindfolds are all great options for group play. Start with something subsantial and comfortable for each person. Then, mix and match different toys, positions, and speeds. Variety is key to any type of group play.

A lot of people tend to forget about butt plugs. These are great for solo or partner play as they provide a lot of extra pleasure. Butt plugs come in a range of sizes, shapes, and materials, so it’s important to choose something that makes you feel comfortable. Take your time to fit the plug before use by using plenty of lube.

One of my favourite sex toys to use for couples is massage wands. They are typically cordless and versatile, so they can be taken anywhere. They come with various speeds and intensities, and can provide a powerful massage. And, if feels like a hot stone massage! Massaging each other with a massage wand can create an intense connection and truly intimate sensations.

As I’ve mentioned before, communication is key with any sex toy. A great way to incorporate sex toys in a relationship is to discuss fantasies and desires so you can make sure you are both comfortable. If you and your partner are feeling a bit shy, then why not start off with something simple, like a vibrator or a blindfold. Always remember to be respectful and honest with your desires.

I hope this article has given you some insight into what to do with sex toys. Don’t be afraid to explore — who knows, you may find something new that really turns you on. The best way to find out is to try it out for yourself!